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\t Please, if possible, draw from your knowledge and experience and tell us
the true facts about anal love. My husband and I want to have sex this way,
but we are afraid of physical damage to me. We tried anal sex once and it
was painful. In fact, I bled slightly, though he did not even penetrate me. We
used a lot of petroleum jelly, but I think the fact that I had wholeheartedly
agreed to do this (after years of coaxing on his part) led him to try to enter me
headlong, which, to me, is a physical impossibility with the average-sized
penis. I have refused to attempt it again, thus far. But I'm curious. Are there
any specific instructions we should follow? Would a condom help or hinder?
If he gets into me, can I accommodate the full length of his penis? Will it hurt
me if he thrusts or when he starts to withdraw? Will it hurt if he comes in
me? How long should we fuck that way per session? Will frequent anal
fucking be harmful? What are the ill effects? Will I have an orgasm?ùMrs.
M.B., Trenton, New Jersey. \p
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\t You sure ask a lot of questions for someone from New Jersey. But we like
your spirit. It doesn't take a lot of hindsight to figure out why your first
attempt failed. According to Masters and Johnson, some pain is inevitable,
but with experience, the pain diminishesùto be replaced by pleasure. What
happens is this: When rectal intercourse is attempted, the anal sphincter
contracts in an involuntary protective reaction. If you're new to the game, the
spasm can last a minute or longer. If you enjoy anal sex regularly, the spasm
can be short-lived, with involuntary relaxation of the muscle occurring within
15 to 30 seconds. Once relaxation occurs, the penis can be fully
accommodated with relative ease, and full penetration can be accomplished
without incident. Masters also notes that after anal penetration, and with the
onset of a maintained thrusting pattern, the sphincter usually reverses its
relaxation and constricts tightly around the penile shaft. (You can tell when
that happensùyour partner will be screaming in ecstasy, pulling his hair out
and making other subtle endearing commentsùif you can hear any of that
over your own erotic sound track.) As to your other questions: A lubricant
will facilitate penetration. Your partner should refrain from entry until the
sphincter has relaxed (via manual stimulation at first). A condom is
recommendedùit can prevent bacteria from entering the penis and infecting
the urethra and prostate. (Similarly, if you engage in any kind of anal sex
wash before returning to the vaginaùthe front and rear tenants are not
compatible.) If you follow those simple precautions, you should be in for a
good time.\p
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\f0\fs12\n Artist: Pater Sato}